Rainer Hansen
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Thailand? Girls fun, boyfriend's nightmare!
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...yes, correct. Obviously a least some white girl seem to have these dreams. A fiew maybe go further and make it come true. I can only reckon that she felt the time in Bangkok was her chance to have the experience. After it had happened again and again I asked my girl the "why"-question. Again and again the same answer that she was sexually -and ONLY sexually-very much attracted, because of the smooth full black hair, the fatless and relatively hairless, muscular body of her maybe nineteen or twenty year old lover. The guy was young fit and wanted her body as her money. And "smaller thingy size", for which asians are very often ridiculed (...deliberately?) is only a myth. For my girl (...in 2007 she was 21 year old and I 28) these were all the ingredients to have wild unhindered sex, for which she never felt sorry, because it is simply a very important part of her sexual life. There may be also a psychological side: After he had sex with her, he did not took me serious at all as her boyfriend and showed no respect at all...what obviously made HIM even more attractive (sexually) to my girl. You can summerize it easily: I was still the boss in the house, but he was the boss in the bed. For me the situation was hard to cope with but for Claudia it was a fullfillment of her dreams to have
1. on the one side a absolutely reliable partner of her cultural background with whom she shares her life and 2. the chance to have sex with an stronger exotic stranger, for which she does not need to fear to be judged and dumped by her partner
Understanding this might be very difficult for a lot of guys, on the other hand how many guys take the right to mess around with Thai girls while their western wifes, girls do not know anything about it?
So reading this part (women looking for asian men) makes me on the one hand very jealous again, on the other hand I have learned to respect and fear asian competitors for my girl. Good luck for Elisa...hope there is no boyfriend!
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